“Attention is the most basic form of love, through it we bless and are blessed. ~ John Tarrant”
There are many who claim they love someone but do not act accordingly.
How do I define accordingly?
By paying and giving attention to the ones you love.
Loving is caring, caring is providing attention no matter how brief to your loved ones.
You cannot just give lip service and say "Of course I care, I love you", but your action speaks "I am busy, I have no time for you, sorry next time baby".
That is not loving others, that is loving yourself, ie selfish.
Food for thought. Do you care enough to pay enough attention to reflect your love?