tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5524159443113496322.post3856657064426831231..comments2023-06-28T22:28:00.249+08:00Comments on Sue's Sanctuary: My First Letter to My Future Self - July 18, 2011Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01244227242720363504noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5524159443113496322.post-51310842485417949442011-07-19T09:05:29.545+08:002011-07-19T09:05:29.545+08:00I think I goofed. lol I didn't see you had to ...I think I goofed. lol I didn't see you had to approved it. Thank you sister!ngarnitzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07524390732134052406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5524159443113496322.post-38841644595812782972011-07-19T09:04:28.908+08:002011-07-19T09:04:28.908+08:00Dearest Sue of now and the future,
After reading ...Dearest Sue of now and the future,<br /><br />After reading what you blog and especially after reading the message from your loving husband, there is nothing else I can say because he has said it all. This man has accepted you as his wife, his partner for life, through the good and bad. It is not time for you to have a child yet, and yes I know how much you would love to become a mother. But for now, just hold on to what you have. You have the most loving husband that is going to be with you through thick and thin, you have friends and even me, your big sister from the USA. <br /><br />Life pulls us down into the dark abyss at times, trust me I've been there more than I care to admit. Live for today, I've always told you good things come to those who wait. Really they do, I waited all my life for a loving husband, 3 years ago I found him, yes it's Dan. <br /><br />Always remember you are loved very much. That little precious godson you have loves you very much, hold on to that dear sister! It's ok to cry when you feel down and have that empty feeling, trust me, I've done that too. Most of the time there was no one around to comfort me, but I am a survivor and you are too!!! <br /><br />Love you very much Sue now and the future as well. And to CS, take care of my sister as I know you will! <br /><br />Hugs and lovesngarnitzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07524390732134052406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5524159443113496322.post-23466968452581149882011-07-18T19:25:19.455+08:002011-07-18T19:25:19.455+08:00Dear Sue (and perhaps future Sue?)
As I logged in...Dear Sue (and perhaps future Sue?)<br /><br />As I logged into my FB acc, your blog's post was first on my news feed, and it totally caught my attention. :)<br /><br />There's a Japanese song which I loved very much, entitled "Tegami", meaning "Letter", which was about a 15-yr old girl writing to her future self...so your post immediately reminded me of that song.<br /><br />I was reading through your post word by word, and felt I must leave a comment when I'm done.<br /><br />As you said, we're humans, and it's unavoidable that we compare ourselves to others...as you were comparing yourself to your mother,I was actually comparing myself to you. Being a bachelorette at this age, I do envy you...<br /><br />"Everything happens for a reason"..<br />"Whatever happens, it must be good"..<br /><br />All those phrases are easier said than done, but still, it can be done..CS also believed in it..hehe<br /><br />Anyway, you have a great family, and a wonderful husband who is always by your side, so don put any blame on yourself...remember, having a child is not a 1-person's thing...it's a couple's thing, so BOTH OF YOU are ALWAYS in this together... :)<br /><br />CS: Please take good care of Sue till the end of time..I'm counting on you! (^o^)yinpeihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08276838168883511550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5524159443113496322.post-11386016765299944922011-07-18T18:01:35.220+08:002011-07-18T18:01:35.220+08:00Dear wife of now and future,
Since you said this ...Dear wife of now and future,<br /><br />Since you said this letter is for your future self, so i'm writing here as a comment to both you and the future you :)<br /><br />I know you are telling everyone I'm a man with very few words. But I hope this comment can fit my reply and words.<br /><br />You're not alone. I'm always by your side and please remember this my dear, no one has ever blame on you, your current self, or your pass and even your future self.<br /><br />As you always say, something happen for a reason. I believe in that. Perhaps we are not having a baby now is a blessing in disguise; it make sound ackward or funny but perhaps, if we have baby, our life will be totally different from now. Agree?<br /><br />It may be good it may be bad, we can't tell, perhaps the future you and I when that day comes we can reply here again in the comment :)<br /><br />Anyway, we are always around you. I'm always around and always will support you. Even if we are destinied to be in current situation till the day we die, rest assured, I'll be by your side holding you and support you. I love you.CShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04279891468989212204noreply@blogger.com